Keep It Simple (While You Can)

For most of my daughter’s life, I was a single parent. So, on her first Christmas, I wanted everything to be perfect.

Even though we were living in a basement studio apartment, I was determined to make it festive, or at least make it look festive on Facebook.

I could've saved my money and just let her look at the wrapping paper in awe and wonder.

But that wouldn't be very fun to post on social media.

I worried about appearances.

It was my baby's first Christmas, and I had to work (I also worked her 2nd and 3rd, but by then I was used to it.)

What kind of parent has to work on Christmas?

I overcompensated with gifts that sat in a corner until she outgrew them, and then I sent them to Goodwill.

All kids want is our attention and the ability to grow and explore the world.

As I watched her crawl in, out, and on the boxes, I wondered...

Why didn't I just wrap empty boxes?
Why are we so obsessed with gifts?
Don't those gifts rob kids of imagination?

Most toys tell kids how to play.

Whatever happened to making mud pies, climbing trees, and catching frogs?

I must admit.

I watched a lot of DuckTales (Woo Oooh!) in my childhood, but even watching cartoons in the 80s triggered activity and imagination.

I had plenty of time to enjoy my favorite show in alternative ways.

For example, I once tore apart every bean bag we owned and poured all the tiny, elusive, static-filled spheres into one room, closed the door, and swam through them like I was Scrooge McDuck. 

Best. Day. Ever.

My mom was quite impressed with my creativity.

Keep it Simple

Our kids don't really need the latest gadget to live a good life.

They need imagination, creativity, and maybe something to tear apart and swim in.

Life doesn't have to be complicated or expensive to be joyous.

That's behavioral health.